Do I Hear Wedding Music?

        “Is that wedding music I hear?” Could be! After all, many a bride chooses the month of June to tie the knot. It’s the most popular month for marriages for numerous reasons—some of those being tradition, better weather, longer daylight hours for celebrating, and availability of lots of flowers.

        I’ll skip the ancient Roman reasons for June marriages (weird and ungodly, to say the least), move up the continent, and jump ahead centuries.

        In medieval Europe, marriages took place after spring planting and before harvest to ensure families returned in time to bring in their yield. Also, around June was considered a good time to bathe (done very infrequently in that era) to assure the bride and groom smelled their best! Oh, and that’s where tradition of carrying fresh flowers and herbs originated—to assure a pleasant scent.

        Brian and I chose to marry in November, but I can assure you. We bathed (how frivolous of us—smile)…and not in June! Well, yes, we did bathe in June too, along with all the other months. (Or should I say, I assume my intended washed as I definitely didn’t witness that!)

        Fresh flowers were so costly in 1978 when these young missionaries planned their wedding, so my mother and I drove to a grocery store where we’d heard they sold lovely silks.

        Indeed, they did! I chose a mix for each handcrafted basket my bridesmaids would carry (made by a disabled friend), extra to make a halo for my junior bridesmaid (our niece), and enough for boutonnieres.

        Then Mom told me she’d heard about a bride who, instead of carrying a bouquet of flowers, held her Bible.

        I loved that idea and picked special silk flowers to place on top of my Bible—in the form of a corsage so I could wear that on my going-away dress following the wedding. I also sewed a silk cover with lace matching my wedding gown for a special wedding day Bible cover (which, along with the corsage, I treasure to this day).

        Our invitations were designed by us at Brian’s suggestion. He particularly liked a ceramic tile I’d made in a college art class. We transferred that simple design onto paper, created the message we wished to be our announcement, and took the master copy to a printer who worked his magic.

        One funny memory regarding those invitations: To totally copy the original design the paper needed to pass through the press 4 times. That would be super expensive, so we requested the printer run the main color—brown—on gold-tone parchment paper.

        Then we ventured over to an art superstore, found 3 permanent markers matching the tile colors, and purchased those. For the next month, every time we had free moments, Brian and I colored our invitations. (Yup, we really did.)

        Everything about our wedding was low budget. But, to be honest, I don’t think I would’ve wanted it any other way, even if we’d been blessed with funds to do more. All that didn’t really matter so much.

        What counted? This man and this woman pledged their abiding devotion to one another, along with other things—yes, including that I’d obey (smile)—from that day forward and forever more.

        Oh, about the obeying thing: (“Rabbit trail” here!)

        Recently, I went through all my files of everything I ever wrote since 6^th grade. Good grief! Some works were okay-ish, some laughable, and one especially grabbed my attention. The title? “What I’m Looking for in a Husband.”

        I won’t bore you with the 20 requirements I listed, but #8 cracked me up! “He needs to be able to keep me in line.” Um, okay, good goal, but no one had been able to do that up until then—but…

        Kudos, Brian Hampshire! You score the highest! (End of “rabbit trail!”)

        Now, wedding music: I always wanted a song Queen Elizabeth II had at her wedding—The Lord’s My Shepherd plus other musical pieces I’d loved over the years. Brian chose favorites of his (Gaither numbers) to be sung by special friends. 

        And, for our wedding march? Something a little different, but I love it to this day—Sheep May Safely Graze played by a flutist, accompanied on the organ.

Sheep May Safely Graze by Johann Sebastian Bach

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0BMCE7XJ2H8&list=RD0BMCE7XJ2H8&start_radio=1

        “Is that wedding music I hear?” Yes—at least it was ours!

        But I digress. We actually sang a couple duets at our reception, one of which was One & One Makes Two from Sesame Street. (We really did.)

One & One Makes Two

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y5Yc0RYDS7w&list=RDy5Yc0RYDS7w&start_radio=1  

 

        “Is that wedding music I hear?” Nope. Not even close. Forgive me for slipping that memory in. It was fun, though, and quite surprised our guests!

        We enjoyed our very us wedding. And that day began what’s now been decades together, serving the King of kings! A marriage that survived multiple no-matter-whats—those life things that happen and can tear marriages apart.

        By now we’ve seen our children marry and look forward to one of our grandchildren’s weddings in the not-to-distant future.

        But there’s another Wedding Day a-comin’! Preparations are being made, and the Lord of hosts has invited us to attend. It’s gonna be huge. The best ever!

        We’re going!  

        You’ve been invited too! Have you accepted God’s invitation? This wedding is for all who’ve accepted Jesus as Savior and Lord (the bride of Christ).

        Right now, we’re just waitin’ for the Groom to say, “Rise, My children—Come on in.” 

Wedding Music

Wedding Music by the Kingdom Heirs

 

        Yes, that’s wedding music we’ll hear! And it’s gonna be amazing!

 

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*lyrics in italics & quotes from Wedding Music, written by Cross & Talley, released 2005

Photo Credit: wedding rings—camella.com.ph, sheet music—shutterstock.com, heavenly clouds—freepik.com