Tuesday, December 26, 2023

Take Back That Gift!

            Our firstborn wasn’t quite 3 years old the Christmas a dear friend presented her with a lovely, wrapped gift.

            Our daughter held the gift, stared at it a moment, then handed it back to the giver. “No bow!” she said. We shared a good laugh amidst that embarrassing moment.

            Would you believe this friend presented her gift to our daughter a second time? Yes. With a bow on top!

            This time it was accepted!

            People stand in long store lines after Christmas, waiting to return gifts for a multitude of reasons. “Too small, too big, already have one, don’t like this color, doesn’t work,” and the ultimate—just plain ol’ “don’t want it.”

             An unwanted gift? Hmm.

            My mind jumps to nearly 2 years after the birth of the Christ Child—when the magi came from the East to present the young Child with their gifts—gold, frankincense, and myrrh.

            Gold and frankincense? Lovely gifts honoring this Holy One.

            But myrrh???

            Good thing I wasn't the mother of Jesus! Had a wise man given my tot myrrh, I might've shoved it back at him and shouted, "Take back that gift!"

            Myrrh? Burial spice? An appropriate gift?

            But let me back up a bit. What about the strips of swaddling cloth Mary wrapped her newborn in at the time of His birth? As she wound those about Him, did she shed tears? After all weren’t these there in prep for the dead? Not an infant full of life?

            And what about the lambs that were swaddled, chosen to be sacrificed? Did her mind flash to an image of a lamb upon an altar? She’d been raised to practice Jewish ceremonial law. She knew what a Passover lamb was.

            And she knew she held the Ultimate Sacrifice—wrapped as one would be at burial.

… Mary kept all these things and pondered them in her heart.”  Luke 2:19 

            I've thought a lot about Mary's pondering ... so much so that I asked my husband to look up "ponder" in the original language and context of that Scripture. One definition read "conflict." Indeed, Mary must have wrestled, knowing her newborn came into the world to die.

            Of course, all of us eventually die, but how many mothers' thoughts go there while beholding their infant?

             Over the years, I've known a handful of women who received dooming news before their babies' births. They still yearned to hold their little ones but shed many tears, cradling while their hearts moaned lullabies in minor keys. They treasured each moment with a mourning love.

            Mary likely felt the way those moms did.  Hit with the realization that the infant she caressed, wrapped in burial cloths, would die. And when the magi came a long time later, she faced that again.

            So, she didn’t return the gift of myrrh but accepted it, knowing her son would need it. What an awful pondering for her and Jesus!

            Thirty-some years later they beheld each other from different vantage points at Calvary ... the moment they both dreaded yet accepted, knowing the will of The Father.

            Good thing Mary accepted that gift, and I’m grateful the Son of God did too. He rose again to give us all another gift—eternal life.

            I chose that gift when I asked Jesus into my life, and there's no taking that back! I'm His child for keeps. Hallelujah!

 

Man of sorrows what a name for the Son of God, who came

Ruined sinners to reclaim: Hallelujah, what a Savior!

Bearing shame and scoffing rude, in my place condemned he stood,

Sealed my pardon with his blood: Hallelujah, what a Savior!

Guilty, helpless, lost were we; blameless Lamb of God was he,

Sacrificed to set us free: Hallelujah! What a Savior!

 

(from Man of Sorrows by Philip P. Bliss, 1875, public domain)

 

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4 comments:

  1. Myrrh is also a healing oil. :) Love your thoughts about Mary.

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    1. That's amazing as we think of the One Who anointed with it having "healing in His Wings!" Thanks for sharing that.

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